I Need Some Advice
You know how you get things, and they are pretty important to you? Then, you know how when you have those things, people automatically want to use them ALL THE TIME!! So, you let them use it once, and they automatically think they can use it over and over again. It is so annoying, and it may not be a big deal, but you usually want your stuff to stay nice. I'm not saying that when I let people borrow my stuff they don't care for it, but you know how when things are your, you care for them more than other people do. I am having this problem, and I need some advice on what to do. I don't want to sound mean or selfish, but you know how there are some things of yours you just don't want other people using, or at least using all the time. I just need help on what to say and how to say it because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I want them also to know that they need to respect me by not always using my stuff, when they do or don't ask to use it. Please Help Guys by letting me know what you think!!
posted by whitney @ 1:20 AM
2 Comments:
Well i will tell you what i think girl...tiff and sam earlier this year got into a stupid fight bc tiff borrowed sams new socks and wore them when sam hadnt opened the plastic 6 pack bag from walmart. Now it was a stupid fight bc it was over 2$ socks but the whole principle is that no matter how good of friends you are you should still have some respect for thier stuff even if you're like sisters...i have a feeling i know what people are borrowing of yours and i would just tell them whats up...yea you might sound mean at first bc hey youve already let the borrow it why arent you going to let them borrow it now...but that rational gets thrown out of the water when they are using your stuff all the time, not respecting you by asking for it, and after that not taking care of it. This is what i would say if they wanted to borrow it...everytime they asked to use it just tell them that you are going to probably use it(so thats like a nice way to say no) and after you do this for a while they will get the hint. Girl i love you but i def dont want you to get taken advantage of...and i know its not even that bad bc wait they are your friends but if they are your friends then they shouldnt get upset in the first place bc you should be able to be honest with them...but anyways good luck and if you need anything let me know. have a good day and i love ya
I'm not saying that they don't care of my stuff, but they don't take care of it like I do.... just wanted to make that clear to everyone... thanks Laura... I love you!!
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